Something horrible has happened between you and the person you fell in love with and got married to. You’ve decided to divorce. Your children did not have the same experience with your ex and should not be subjected to your evil feelings about him or her.
Did you suffer when you had to listen to critical words about your former spouse from your friends or from your parents? Were you just a bit bruised listen to their criticisms? Did you want to run away from those hurt-filled words?
This is going to sound like a cliché, and rightfully so, but trust is the cornerstone of every relationship. Without it, a relationship is full of misery and doomed to fail.
This is going to sound like a cliché, and rightfully so, but trust is the cornerstone of every relationship. Without it, a relationship is full of misery and doomed to fail. With extramarital affairs, divorce and failed relationships becoming more and more prevalent in today’s society, many people are becoming reluctant to place their faith in their partners. They view their partners with suspicion, while questioning their every word.
When you’re going through a divorce, we frequently experience our ex being defensive about his/her role in the divorce, when he or she might well have been the one who cheated! Let’s be sure we don’t assume blame that isn’t ours to bear.
What was the reason for your divorce? Lies, abuse, not in love any more, or my personal favorite, adultery? I’ll bet a dollar to your dime, if you’re reading this article, it was because of my personal favorite. Am I right? Oh, adultery is a bugaboo; it leaves you with horrid feelings. But wait! There’s good news behind this horror. It wasn’t your fault they cheated. It was their fault. They really need to work on their life at lot more than you do.